This weekend on the phone to Dad, I got to complaining about how everything is speeding up in the world. Dad offered his usual level-headed sage advice that it's just what happens as you get older, when there are fewer new things to experience. "When you're young, everything is new and exciting, and the time to appreciate those new things is there."
I decided with breathless excitement that these "new and exciting" experiences from our childhood held some sort of neurological key to our perception of time: As we get older, our lives are filled more and more with the mundane. Our brains pay less attention to things they have become used to processing - walking down stairs, pouring a glass of water, pressing the elevator call button. Maybe time is marked only when something new is introduced to our brains. Seagulls diving into a pool on an island off the coast of Croatia. The first taste of a good mole sauce. The day they happen to be filming the new Robert De Niro film on your street. The number of new experiences our brain gets to process on a daily basis is what determines whether time, and life by extension, seems fast or slow.
It should be easy to slow down time, then: just experience something new every day. Travel the world. Have children. Visit a different restaurant every night of the week. Pick up the accordion (something I've been threatening to do for months now). But these things all cost money, or alter your life in such an irrevocable way that you can't possibly do it just on a whim. Other ways are not wished for. When a pipe bursts, or someone you love is in the hospital, or even when you spend the day in an unfamiliar laundromat, the day seems endless, but not in a good way.
And then this morning I realized that the most simple and inexpensive way of seeking out new experiences was something I'd been doing all along: reading books.
If I were to think about it, I can count my time in Didions, Murakamis, and Bromfields. My commute to work is half an hour long, but how often have I spent hours driving instead along the Pacific Coast Highway, or spent days waiting for the answer to a letter sent from Moscow to St. Petersburg by horse? How much time have I bought by living these parallel lives? Every introduction to a new character with a death wish or green gloves or the resolve to wear only grey-black-and-white buys me days. Every rendering of proud houses or small gossipy towns buys me hours. Stolen kisses under the stairs buy me minutes of time that I wouldn't otherwise have. I feel as if I'm living more than twice the life I would live without books, and that's as a good a reason as any to read.
That said, 2006 has bled its little heart out to offer books to the cause, and people are now scrambling to pick their favorites. I won't lie: I love these lists. I keep an Excel spreadsheet of the books I've read over the past three years; how could I not like lists? From what I've seen, 2005 was arguably a much better year for books in general, but I've barely sampled the goods this time around.
Still, if you're curious, I come bearing links. The NY Times Book Review has picked its 100 Notable Books, the Canadians too. The Guardian has all sorts of 2006 book choices, and the Publisher's Weekly list went up a few weeks ago. Even Amazon weighs in, probably hoping you'll click "add to cart" on as many as possible, but actually coming up with the most diverse list of the bunch. Fimoculous is collecting more.
And there you have it: more than 100 Life Extenders, Parallel Lives, and Ways of Buying Time on This Green Earth. Enjoy.
(For more bookish pleasure, go visit Maud. She spent the holiday redecorating, and the place looks great.)